A conceited Con has shown extra pumped from the accolade by this list on social media: 10 things to let go to be successful by Daniel Ally (see the blog pic) or could be just the drug-talking.

The internet, especially facebook has become infested with bad information, fake news and too many have become personal advisers just because they wanted to be without any credentials. Personally, this Mr Ally’s over-simplified list should be banned. Most of his posts are a list of things, guess that works for the followers. Life is not that simple. It isn’t the David Letterman Top 10 list serving a comedic value. For many readers, they do take what they read seriously, this list is so ambiguous to the point that it does more damages than to help the needs. Yes, for a general normal Joe, maybe the list is an ok advise. Nothing in the list is any spanking new idea however, unfortunately, Daniel did not anticipate his over-abbreviated objective list can add fuel to someone’s twisted crystal-methed-up mind. Some sociopath like Con. It is exactly how the Middle-East terrorist group ISIS twisted the Book of Quran. You can call it misinterpretation when it comes from an innocent place; but for ISIS or Con, they are far far off the wall from it, their mind see what they want to see, twist and word-smith a version of Gandhi or Oprah’s inspirational speech to fit in their fu*ked up contorted world. Now follow me, let’s pretend that you are a heartless villain without any conscience, for the next few minutes, imagine you see through a pair of super googled-up sociopath glasses, and are wearing a pair of Alexa shoes to become him, to see and experience as him, Con the sociopath:

10 Things to Let Go to Be Successful in Con’s Deceptive World

1. Let go of toxic people — this includes anyone who doe snot believe my lies, or does not follow my Pied Piper of Hamelin’s piper, anyone who questions my authority and manipulation, and anyone who has backbone, stand up for themselves speaking up or retaliate, these are all toxic people! You are fired! I love Donald Trump!
2. Let go of regretting my past mistakes — so perfect timing after I was exposed by this story. So what if anyone thinks I was wrong and made mistakes. I have no regret forget about any apology, WWHATEVVER, I do not care, I don’t give a flying fu*k. If I could startover, I will frivolously do it all over again!
3. Let go of the need to be right — Finally this Daniel Ally gave me a license to be wrong, infecting others with HIV, steal others money, it is ok because I do not need to define what’s right. However, I hated it when memoir author pointed out I was wrong, like that time I did not know VW Corrado offered an automatic spoiler. My ego was so mad that I got it wrong. I hate the memoir author for being right, Shame! Therefore if I always wanted to argue with him to make him feel so little.
4. Let go of feeling sorry for myself —it means no apology to anyone including myself, I am invincible I can do anything with no worries with no shame
5. Let go of the need to impress others — no silver-lining, I am still trying to pretend someone I am not anymore for my Polish family and friends, besides that, I do not need to workout to have a better looking body, I just need my king-d*ck, I do not need to impress others, because I am Sex God! No moral, no religion, no conscience, no responsibility, Yeah! that’s how murderers run their lives.
6. Let go of loyalty to those who don’t deserve it — if I treat the memoir author with no loyalty, I abused and betrayed him even after he saved my life between jobs for 18 months by lending me his life savings, even after he completely devoted to me like a lap puppy, basically I have not much and no one to loyal to but myself. I can betray anyone on demand as I wish. When my father got sick again, I announced my mother as a selfish bitch non-stop just because she decided to retire and not making money. Who does that? Me. To me the word “loyalty” actually means a premeditated plan for anyone who I can advance to be their beneficiary. The memoir author used to be one, drank my CoolAid, until he found out my plan and I couldn’t squeeze a drop of benefit anymore then I cut him off because he “didn’t deserve my loyalty and mercy anymore,” Who I am loyal to now? My current beyond naive design partner J Wong, my always free attorney Ms.J, and of course my ex BK, who I nicked name him Queen of Pee, because he pees more than a woman, probably because of drug use too. Also drug dealers and a village of my loyal fu*k buddies who cannot wait for the next Chem-sex orgy. They treat me as the Greek Sex God. You figure out why …
7. Let go of holding my self back — should of squeeze more money from the lover-moron, why not? Orgies, drugs, orgies, more sex and penetrate every patron steps inside the steam room, why stop? Do it all the way with no protection and don’t tell anyone I am HIV positive and take Viagra to keep my energizing bunny going for hours. The only back I am holding is the back of each Gaysian bottom boys’.
8. Let go of the need to please everyone — fu*k the boss, fu*k the business partner. With my crystal meth infused mind and body the only ones I want to please is myself and maybe the next batch of participants at my orgy party.
9. Let go of the need to control others — if I tell you I gave up control, that’s a fat lie, because that’s just another way to manipulate you right after, dumb and dumber!
10. Let go of a job I hate—perfect for my situation since I was fired by Starbucks for being incompetent. By saying I hated it, good for my face in front of my naive followers from Poland who believe whatever I tell them.

I wonder if Now come back to reality and make sure you throw away those imaginary sociopath glasses along with that Crystal Meth crack pipe Con uses (Little bird told me that in his flat, he has different tools and little batches of Meth hidden in different spot!) He got fired because he had been on probation for 3 months, after he went into a meeting higher than a kite, with all his delayed work, messy email communication, disheveled financial situation causing debt collectors showing up at work, a perplexing raunchy personal life. Who would want to keep an employee like this? I am sure his management was happy to see the debt collector, so finally got a real reason to set him free. Probably furious at the headhunter who recommended Con, it took 8 months from interviewing him to hiring him, cost them HK$100K+ agent fee, they tried to make sure it was a good fit. Little they knew, his drug problem was progressing while Seattle headquarter was processing its budget approval. By the time he was hired, Chem-sex already took over his life. He was lucky to be given a probation period, because any one with only one of the above reasons would be fired by an American Corporation in USA immediately.

Covert Narcissist that he is one. Distressed and low self-esteem but want to stay superior over others.

A few readers questioned the accuracy of this true story, believe it is a series of colorful- fabricated rumors; I want to take the chance and state this fact — this is the truth, a true story, it has prevailed and I can swear on it with my heart of gold that I used to help this Polish, my soul, my life and my family’s lives that we will die in a miserable tragic death: If any part of this story was pure fabrication, including all the described incidents, emotion and feelings, either were not experienced by myself or not directly informed by others to me!

I understand it is hard to believe someone you do not know, If that’s the case why would I lie to you, Don’t I deserve at least benefit of doubt? For once take away your bias, block off Con’s bright blue eyes on his handsome face, just for a minute, Then ask yourself, why on earth someone who lives this far, 8300+ miles away and wrote beyond 16,000 words? If this is not for profit, then I must have so much time to waste on a fictional story. Don’t I have a life? Don’t I have better things to do, such as laundry, gym, brunch with friends, watching amazing TV shows? And on top of that I live in New York City, not the muggy fishy SheungWan! Give your intelligence more credit, not his words, trust me, you will live longer this way!

I wonder if Con can swear on my story … I bet he probably can, as for a sociopath, boarder-line psychopath, he could sell his mother, his siblings or nephew/niece for a price.

Con posted on his Facebook, “… prove I was right about you, Yet I wish you well.” Such a showman, arrogantly put up a statement to make himself feel better? Trying to tell himself what if he didn’t lie to me with his HIV status? What if he didn’t use me for money only? What if he honestly admited his addiction to sex and drugs? There is no more straws to grab, he knows I know, God knows what he did. He wrote this to show his friends and followers and I am neither because he had blocked me in all channels, I have to be told what was posted. Only a narcissist has to prove himself right in all situations even in the hot seat before execution. This is MY story to tell, my entire published story is about exposing what he did in detail to the T so he could not lie more to cover his triple life, yet his ego still found a need to find some way to succeed over me, to put me down and elevate himself… He is a filthy dirty soulless sex pig, he can pretend all he wants, the truth has prevailed, wait for the judgement and karma… I pray for those who blindly believe him and to see the truth one day… what he has done to me was so satan heartless soulless and I could not imagine anyone could be more ungrateful than he was … he owes so much more than money, it was the time and effort and compassion he had spoiled by betrayal and self-righteousness. So what was he right about? That I am not a push-over, that if someone manipulated me blatantly I would get my justice? He is still living in a compartmentalized triple life, separate his bareback-drug- sex-life from his HK life and his Poland life. He probably believes he is innocent of everything. Soicopaths tend to be able to believe in his own lies, because they are lack of sense of self-spiritual-awareness, all they want to is to filfull their desire of practcal needs, like drugs, sex, and money. He will never admit he is a drug junkie and infected me with his HIV. It is very him, so predictable, shit never sticks, he has no fault. So sad, that he is trapped in his own LaLaLand of lies. Spent 4 years slowly shredded me into thousand strands, I was able to forgive him and wanted to befriend 2017 March. For six months, he shut me out said he didn’t crave to see or to talk with me. Then I found out he gave me HIV. .. he totally denounced his responsibility, such a coward. Now he has the audacity to pretend to be so noble and wish me well? So condescending so evil, what a tool! God knows how much he has wronged me and karma has no deadline. I promise I will live extra “bestest,” I never wished anyone ill ever, but just to be able to make some popcorn and waiting to see how it ends for him excites me and gives me hope that there is a god and he is coming for him …

In all honesty I just had a birthday, the first since I found out I am positive. I didn’t want to celebrate. I just picked up 30-day prescription, one month at a time and if I need to travel I am allowed to do a 2-month prescription only once a year. Imagine this will be the rest of my life, planning my life around this drug cycle. It cannot be more fu*ked up that every time when I take the pills, it reminds me the person who infected me hates me more than I do. I made one birthday wish wishing we could all settle and be friends. I believe the love was real at least from my part, maybe his wasn’t all fake either. I believe he is just temporary insane due to circumstances and drugs. Exposing him sounds so harsh, but I am the only person who can do this. He needed a lesson, he could be suffering addiction disease, but his over-weight ego needs to go on a diet. He is not a sex god or any god, he is not able to out smart everyone. He cannot pull vicious act without consequences. I am sure he will think about it thrice before try what he had done to me on anyone again. Now when I think of it, I’m glad that I actually am helping him and others.