Welcome to the Club, Con!
He proclaimed on Facebook that he was “clowned on social media” after contacting my peers. Poor Con—always trying to elevate himself, yet in reality, a clown makes more money than he does. If he’s suggesting that my friends and I are some kind of circus, loud and unapologetically happy, then of course Cockroach Con wouldn’t like it. He’d rather spend the rest of his life lurking in dark, damp, filthy alleyways—which, incidentally, is where he prefers to have sex without disclosing his HIV status (steam rooms in gay saunas, anyone?).
When you shine a light on cockroaches—like this memoir and blog are doing—they panic and scatter. He still owes me a large sum of money. It’s not harassment when I follow his trail to collect what he owes—especially after he shut down all communication and ignored my lawyer’s letter. What else am I supposed to do? He can keep piling lies on top of lies, but to play the victim, he’s deflecting every allegation onto me.
If he can prove my memoir is fabricated, he’s welcome to sue for defamation. But defamation only works if he’s truly innocent. He knows I know. God knows. Everything I’ve said is true. And I’m not sorry—because this is my story. I never forced him to lie to me, nor did I pressure him into borrowing money only for him to vanish and deceive me. He chose to be shady.
I’ve hardly mentioned his name here, and the images are all artwork. Meanwhile, there are revenge websites directing traffic to my memoir—I HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH THOSE. This site has taken on a life of its own. Some high-end nerds even cross-reference their own sites to boost clicks and ad revenue—I’M NOT INVOLVED WITH THEM EITHER, but I’m grateful they’ve helped push my site to #1 on every search engine. Free promotion to expose the liar, the narcissist!
The Narcissist’s Playbook
A hallmark of narcissistic personality disorder is pathological lying. Con has crafted a false persona—a “drug-free, monogamous” facade masking his promiscuous, low-life reality. This fabricated self is who he wishes he were, not who he truly is. Even if given permission to sleep around, he’d still break rules just to test boundaries.
When exposed, narcissists retaliate with vindictive lies—deflecting accusations, attacking critics, and twisting narratives. That’s exactly what’s happening now. He’s furious because the truth is out: his drug use, his exploitation of people, and his recent attempt to manipulate my peers. Two days ago, he posted on Facebook: “Entertain a clown, and you become part of the circus.” Guess he was testing if my friends would buy his lies.
Gurl, please. I went to his peers because my story is consistent—no lies, no contradictions. The truth only needs to be remembered once. Meanwhile, he’s spinning tales, claiming he “can’t make peace” because I’m “harassing” him. Reality check: I’ve tried to resolve this from Day 1. The only reason I’ve had to “make noise” is because he ran away like a pouting child, refusing to communicate, explain, or repay what he owes.
The Narcissist’s Gaslighting 101
Narcissists never take accountability. Instead, they project—accusing others of their own crimes. Con has mirrored my accusations against him, even screaming about “karma” when I exposed him for dating his ex-fiancée. He claims:
• I fabricated everything
• I’m the one with a drug problem
• I’m “crazy,” “mentally ill,” and “out of touch with reality”
• I didn’t get HIV from him
Sound familiar? These are his behaviors, deflected onto me. At one point, I wondered if I was hallucinating—who does that? He even claimed the WhatsApp messages on my site were “Photoshopped.” False. The content is real—I simply combined short bubbles for readability. Below is what an actual exported WhatsApp conversation looks like.
Below is what a real Whatsapp
exported conversation look like. And when I needed to save space, I
would combine 5 bubbles into one —“Yeah, I always cum inside.
That’s the real deal and pump it in, so you can feel my dick pulsati”
An actual screen grab of an exported Whatsapp SMS conversation dated 2013 July.
Justifications are another way the narcissistic personality disorder
trait of pathological lying is applied. The narcissist will expertly
fabricate information to exempt themself from accountability, or to
create excuses as to why they behaved inappropriately. So Con had
been telling others he will not make peace and pay me back, mainly
because I went to harrass his home wrote things to his wall and
trying to open his gate. He just conveniently omitted, he had been
shut me out for more than 8 months beforehead, I had tried all
channels to communicate and he decided to ignore me. These are the
games he plays, almost Almost convincing.
The narcissistic personality disorder trait of pathological lying is
very disturbing. When the narcissist is playing out this narcissistic
personality disorder trait it can easily catch people off guard – as it
can be hard to detect. The narcissist resides emotionally and
mentally in his or her false world, and often the narcissist
cannot distinguish between fiction and fantasy. Therefore, when
confronted with this narcissistic personality disorder trait, you may
believe the narcissist is genuine, yet feel that something is not right,
or you may know the narcissist doesn’t have the facts straight, but
get so turned and twisted by the lies you feel like you are losing your
mind.
Source: http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/pathological-lyingnarcissistic-
personality-disorder-traits
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